<span style="color:indigo"><span style="font-size:75">Okay, I need advice before I get myself into trouble over someone else's problems.<br><br>My best friend, who is such a nice, caring person (who couldn't even step on a disgusting, creepy spider -shudders-) is being harrassed by a (I swear he's a crazy-jealous creeper o.o).<br><br>Anyways, it's gotten bad. He used to be an outsider, a loner, a downright unliked guy. I felt bad for him, but I was shy person last year and didn't talk to him (plus, I'm devoted to my already-best-friends, and I thought he was kind of scary--he's tall and big-boned). My best friend started talking to him, trying to cheer him up be being his friend. We played soccer with him (whilst the other soccer players made fun of him... :[)<br><br>She was his friends even until now, about a year later. Now that she's realizing he's really controlling and spazzy, she isn't hanging out with him as much because, well, he scares her.<br><br>He goes to counselling over his problems and cries during lunch period and break. I can't help but feel sorry for him when he does, but otherwise I just downright ignore him since he's always spazzing and screaming at my best friends and I. Especially my one best friend that tried to be his friend!<br><br>Apparently a long time ago he asked her out. Bull****. He never did; but he did get very emotional over her not 'considering him to go to the dance with'. At that time, she was going out with another boy, so she tried to explain that to him and he just completely ignored her and kept stressing that she should've went with him. (Before the dance, after that, my best friend dumped her boyfriend and didn't go to the dance--not because she felt bad for the guy, but because she wanted to.)<br><br>Since then, he's had a huge jealousy pact that has just recently become distinct like mad.<br><br>It's because she's going out with a different boy, one she actually really likes and he likes her back.<br><br>These are the words always argued back and forth between my best friend and him:<br><br>"You think he's better than me!" -guy<br>"No, I don't, you're my friend, and I LIKE him." -best friend.<br>"WELL YOU SAID NO TO ME WHEN I ASKED YOU OUT!" -guy<br>"You didn't ask me out. And you're my friend, I don't like you like that." -best friend<br><br>Then he blabbers on more about lies and how she 'betrayed' him by saying she wouldn't go out with any guys and then she did.<br><br>He's absolutely controlling. She hates it, I am ready to punch his face in, and he's a huge hypocrite. Thing is, we get in the crap because HE'S in counselling from some other kids that bugged him LAST year. We're told to leave him alone. WE DO! But he comes to us to pick apart all his lies and throw them in our face. What really bugs me is he gets away with it!<br><br>I was absolutely astounded that he did this just this morning:<br><br>*Best friend's boyfriend puts his hands on best friend's shoulders while she's sitting on at the table* He starts talking to her and asking if (the creepy, stalker guy) is upsetting her.<br>"DON'T TOUCH HER!" -creepy guy<br>"I was talking to her" -boyfriend<br>"WELL THAT'S NOT THE WAY TO DO IT, GET YOUR HANDS OFF HER!" -creepy guy<br>Vice Principal: "Okay, you two, come to the office."<br>Creepy guy gets in trouble for yelling, gets the boyfriend in trouble, and walks out without much of a punishment except a lecture!<br><br>Honestly, it's guys like these that get away with controlling women/their wives when they're older.<br><br>The other day, my best friend's boyfriend wanted to take my best friend to the movies and creepy guy came up after eavesdropping and said, "What movie? What time? What day?"<br><br>My god. If he could, he'd tail around on my best friend and scream at her.<br><br>She's really upset. Now, before I do that kid a favor and punch his face in, any advice, suggestions, comments? Alright. Thanks for reading guys! I need some other opinions before I go physco on him... :[</span></span>
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